Understanding TikTok privacy settings
A jargon-free guide to making sure your teenager's TikTok account is as secure as possible, covering direct messages, comments, and profile visibility.
Step-by-Step Guide
Turn on Private Account
Go to Profile -> Settings and Privacy -> Privacy. Toggle 'Private Account' to green. Under 16s are private by default, but double-check this!
Restrict 'Suggest your account'
In the Privacy menu, tap 'Suggest your account to others' and turn off all toggles (Contacts, Facebook friends, Mutual connections) to prevent unsolicited discovery.
Disable Video Downloads
Tap 'Downloads' under Safety and set it to OFF. This stops other users from saving your teen's videos to their own camera rolls.
Control Direct Messages
Tap 'Direct Messages' and select 'No One' (safest) or 'Friends' (only accounts they follow who follow them back).
Frequently Asked Questions
Are TikTok accounts for kids under 16 private by default?
Yes, registered accounts for ages 13-15 are private by default, but kids can easily change their birthdate when signing up. It's always best to check the settings directly on their device.
How can I supervise my child's account without being overbearing?
Use TikTok's 'Family Pairing' mode. This lets you link your TikTok account to theirs, allowing you to set screen time limits, filter content, and control search/privacy settings from your own phone.